Catching up with old friends

My friend Becky popped in to see us the other day. She lived down in Essex for about ten years, but is now back in her hometown of Coventry, so we only see each other about once a year. We met in hospital having the boys, had beds next to one another, and were really close for years. We spent a lot of time together in those early days, first time mums supporting each other and all that!

Our sons were born ten years ago just two days apart, Taylor on the 8th of February and Robin on the 10th, but the size difference was always quite hilarious;



I had to take a comparison photo while they were here. It was too funny seeing them standing next to each other, Robin looking about eight and Taylor about thirteen.

I may have a giant on my hands.



A few more golden oldies;





Looking at these I've noticed that Kit does that same mouth open smile that Taylor did, not that I can catch evidence on film. Kit is camera shy. They are very similar, except for Taylor's ears! I mentioned getting them pinned back to him the other day, just seeing how he felt about them in case he wanted it done, and he said he likes his ears and doesn't want them changed. Good for him! It certainly doesn't bother the girls, he's inundated with them already! He's had the same girlfriend for about a year now. They are adorable together, all quiet and shy with each other.

Gosh I look young in this one. I met Pete a few months after this was taken.

Schools Out

No more getting up early for school runs. Not that I'll get a lie in as Kit gets me up at dawns crack, but the rest of them get themselves up and fed, so it's easy peasy from here on in. Today we had contractors outside our bedroom with chainsaws at 7am. Very thoughtful of them.

I'm very aware that the rest of this blog post will be very dull for the majority of people out there, but we have family that read my blog, *waves*, and they want to see these.

Isobel's first school report was excellent. You can tell she's ours because the people-pleasing part of her nature is so like me, I hate conflict and do anything to diffuse a situation, and the numeracy skills is very much like Pete.




Taylor's was also very good;


Taylor's test results were really good. An average child(whatever that is!) should be achieving Level 3a/4c by the end of Year 5, which is the year he has just finished.



Ryan had three of his friends over on Saturday night, and our living room isn't really big enough for four almost-adult sized people now, so the rest of us escaped for a couple of hours. We went to the pub as it was a nice evening. Pete decided that the ancient bouncy castle in the beer garden could cope with an adult and two children. He was wrong!

Got my bedroom back!

I decorated Kit's nursery on Thursday, well most of it, and was kind of dreading moving him out of our room as I'd got so used to him being there. He's not a good sleeper really, since day one he's been a late to bed-early to rise kind of person, going down at 10pm and being up for the day at 4ish. Added to that was the fact that he wakes at 1am for a feed, and I haven't had much sleep at all for the last 4 months.

I've never had a baby that likes to co-sleep before so it's been strange. I normally pop him in with us when he won't settle at 4ish. I've kept a single bed in his new room so we can continue to snooze together.

Little did I know that it seems to have been us keeping him awake. He slept in his new room the first night and went down at 11pm and woke up at 6.30am. Dropping that 1am feed has made me feel so much better. The other two nights he's woken earlier(5.30 and 4.30), but hes settled quickly. Long may it continue!

Ryan's Room

We finally got the new room built downstairs. We'd planned to get it done before Christian arrived, then we just kept putting it back, but it's finally done. We had a large L-shaped living room before, so we've cut the extra bit off and now just have a square room.

Before the work started

End of the first day

Finished!





I've got plenty of decorating to do. I'm working on Ryan's room, the nursery and the hallway all at once, just a little each day, and eventually I'll do the lounge too.

Bee

I left three of my leeks to flower, and the bees have gone nuts for them. I counted twelve bumble bees out there the other day! I finally captured one with my camera today.



I love leek flowers. They smell like cheese & onion crisps!

Three years.

Three years? This past weekend it had been three years since my Nan died. Where has that time gone? I can't believe that Isobel had just turned two when she died. She never got to see her in her school uniform, or hold a proper conversation with her about the things that Isobel likes to talk about, like space, or butterflies. Taylor was just seven when she died, and now he's almost senior school age. Ryan had only lived with us for a year then.

She would've loved Kit. It makes me sad that he'll never know her. He's such a happy, sunny boy, she would've loved to snuggle him.

Sports Day

School Sports Days are pretty rubbish these days. There are no winners, or prizes. What is so wrong with teaching our children to have a little competitive streak? Or even learning to be a good loser?





Or maybe I'm just bitter that my daughter wins nearly all her races and gets no recognition for it. My team won the Mum's race too!



I can't say too much here, what with it being a public blog, but Pete is currently off work sick with stress, as they have been trying to push him out of the company for some time with no grounds to do so. We've had legal advice as the company have made a huge mess of the procedure, but for now Pete is home with me and we are having to manage on my maternity pay. We are making the most of it though, money isn't that important to us, as long as we are together and the bills are paid. Time is much more precious.

Tagged

I’ve been tagged by Thursday whose wonderful photos and writing have helped me while away many an hour.

What is your current obsession?

Decorating, sadly. And the thought of(and lack of) sleep.

What is your weirdest obsession?

I'm obsessed with derelict buildings, and expend an awful lot of energy scanning for them on car journeys, dreaming about them, and trying to get photos of them. I have no idea why I love them so much.

What are you wearing today?

Black shorts and a vest.

What’s for dinner?

We just had a BBQ. I had kebabs with vegetables and prawns.

What would you eat for your last meal?

Smoked Salmon & Asparagus pasta.

What’s the last thing you bought?

Wallpaper.

What are you listening to right now?

Kit snoring and the fan whirring round.

What do you think of the person who tagged you?

I would love to spend the day wandering around taking photographs with her, with lots of pub stops in between.

If you could have a house totally paid for, fully furnished anywhere in the world, where would you like it to be?

Brighton.

If you could go anywhere in the world for the next hour, where would you go?

Back to Jamaica. An hour wouldn't be long enough though.

Which language do you want to learn?

French probably. I quite fancy living there one day.

What’s your favourite quote (for now)?

It's in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped

What is your favourite colour?

Green, most shades.

What is your favourite piece of clothing in your own wardrobe?

The cheap summer dress I bought a few weeks ago. It's getting a lot of use.

What is your dream job?

Working with animals, I really miss it.

Describe your personal style?

50's housewife mixed in with casual festival chic.

What’s your favourite tree?

Poplar. I like the musical sound the leaves make in the breeze, like wind chimes.

What are you going to do after this?

Tidy up after the BBQ probably, then have a glass of wine.

What’s your favourite fruit?

Pears.

What inspires you?

Beautiful scenery, and watching all the wonders of nature. My current favourite is watching the swifts rolling and diving above my house every day.

What is your favourite photo that you've taken?

At the moment, it's this one taken at Thorndon Country Park last September:


What are you currently reading?

Nothing, I'm taking a break from reading as I'm all studied out from my course.

Go to your bookshelf, take down the first book with a red spine you see, turn to page 26 and type out the first line:

"I thought I recognized the dark eager eyes, the colourless cheeks, the strangely vigilant, anxious expression which I remembered in past times as a characteristic of Alfred Monkton's face, and was about to question my friend on the subject, when he gave me unasked the information of which I was in search." - The Second Century of Creepy Stories, published in 1937(and it smells like it!)

What delighted you the most today?

Watching the bees buzzing around last years leeks that I've left to flower. I left them for the insects so I'm glad they appreciate them.

By what criteria do you judge a person?

Their spelling. I'm not a grammar Nazi but I can't abide text speak.

What item could you not live without?

My iPod, definitely.
Tagged: Dan , Venus, Geek Mama, Kate, Raisin'Cookies, Nins and Peedles


The rules:

1. Respond and rework; answer the questions on your blog, replace one question you dislike with a question of your invention, then one more question of your own.

2. Tag eight other people.

Long time, no post

I must apologise for my complete absence for almost a month. *slaps wrist*

So what have we been up to? Pete's been on his football tour to Budapest, we've been away for the weekend to Brighton, the children have all carried on growing and changing, and yes I've taken far too many photographs, as always.











I also had my exam last Wednesday, which was my main reason for staying away from Blogger. I needed to do some serious revision, but I was a good girl and got stuck in for about ten days, on and off. The good news is, it paid off, and the questions were ones I'd revised. Pete took two days off and had Kit sleeping with him, so I could get some decent sleep beforehand, and I wrote copious amounts of notes to refresh my memory in the days leading up to it. The exam was 3 hours long, and I had to answer three questions with an essay type answer. I get my results in August I believe. I was feeling a bit worn out with it all, but now that I'm enjoying a few months off I feel ready to crack on with next year. I'm looking forward to it actually.

Taylor had his football presentation last Friday, which I hate going to as it drags on for hours and hours. I love seeing him get his trophies, but then we have to sit there and clap politely for another two hours. His team are all going to another side next year, which should be fun as the club they were with was pretty badly run.





There is only a few weeks left of the school term and I'm kind of dreading the children being off as we are really short of money. I think it's going to be a case of lots of walks in the country with a picnic this summer. Ryan has actually joined the land of the living as he's banned from the Xbox at the moment, so we currently have a nice, pleasant teenager - scheduled to finish on the 17th July when he gets it back! Isobel is great fun, and talks too much, as always.



Kit is such a sweet, calm little baby. he's a joy to look after. His only downfall is he seems to think that 4am - 6am is party time. He kicks around and whinges and shouts. Swaddling him settles him but he's getting too strong now and kicks himself out of his blankets. I've given him 13 weeks to get his body clock in order by himself and he's not having any of it, so I'm going to have to be tough with him in a few months when he goes in his own room I think. I was hoping that by ignoring him and not playing with or cuddling him, he'd get the hang of it and settle back to sleep, but nothing has changed in three months. Still he's so smiley and happy, I forgive him! When he's awake he likes to be sitting upright taking it all in, chattering to everybody.

Isobel's Party

The party ws a greaat success. I hate children's parties, they are my idea of hell on earth, so for me to enjoy it shows it must've been good fun! The children went straight out into the garden when they arrived and painted their own terracotta pot, then came inside and had their faces painted by me. Those two things took up at least an hour of the party and was a fab idea as they all really enjoyed themslves. We put the food out and they ate and played out in the garden, and stroked the Guinea pigs. They then filled their pots with earth and planted two sunflower seeds each. Then right at the end we had a butterfy pinata filed with confetti and sweeties which they all went nuts for.